Given this time of year, I know most of you must assume this post is somehow related to these two nut jobs..
But, it’s not! It is actually concerning the great debate between myself, my husband and our fertility doctor, who might as well be family at this point. We need to decide if we plan to transfer a single embryo or two. Under no circumstance will we transfer more than two. This is causing me major anxiety, and I’m asking for help and advice from those who have been thru IVF before.
If we transfer a single embryo, and achieve pregnancy, then it is a win all the way around. However, this gives us a 42% success rate and this shit is expensive! And time consuming!!! If we transfer 2 embryos, our success rate bumps up to 65%, which is great but then there is the concern of a twin pregnancy. Oh, and have you heard of embryos splitting, while rare it does happen creating an identical twin set like with this family or this family. Both are precious families and blogs I feel encouraged by, but wow…it seems scary!
Enough rambling, any advice?!?!?!?!?